|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
In the United States, the pursuit of happiness is a god-given right and Americans have a document to prove it. But I wonder why the Founding Fathers deliberately phrased it, 'the pursuit of happiness', as if to say --- happiness in itself cannot be granted because it was, and still remains, tied to materialism. In the "pursuit" of happiness, it is each person's own definition: riches, health, religion, etc.
Take, as an example, the pessimist and optimist. If anything bad happens, the pessimist believes it will not last long but will surely undermine his life. He feels the deck is stacked against him, yet being more realistic than the optimist, he prepares himself for misfortune.
The optimist regards it as a temporary setback and goes about removing the obstacle. He risks more but these efforts give meaning to his life and he makes the best of it. To acquire is to be happy (so the culture teaches) therefore blessed are they for among them are corporate executives in their mansions.
There is enough on the subject of happiness to fill an ebook, but let's measure just one facet: the Internet. How much would it take to make you a happy Interneter? Has your 'big break' eluded you thus far? What kind of Internet success would give you a sense of control over your life ? because when you think about it, "control over your life" is a huge slice of happiness.
To generate an income on the Internet, it must come through the development of integrity, character, and efforts on behalf of a cause greater than oneself. By doing the job with honesty, helpfulness, and concern for others, we may have to take some time from our busy schedule to 'coach' a struggling newbie. This mindset offers an easier path to your own success.
Personally, I have not set goals of Internet success so high that it would plunge me into depression when deprived of a six figure income. Given the years (like me) you have labored the Internet, you must avoid the "joy-busters" out to derail your efforts. Only then can you begin living up to your full potential. You will discover more energy and creativity, better relationships, healthier thoughts leading to new ideas and a more rewarding income.
Is there a difference between the life you have ? and the life you want? Do you think excuses or results? You can change this today; be that singer who is tone-deaf but sings anyway for the sheer joy it offers.
Jim Leonard wrote, "Happiness is a skill. As with other skills, you can get better at it." He suggests that at this point in your life you might think that things are not the way they should be. Yet things are the way they are. If you can be happy in that reality, then you will improve your life faster and reach your goals easier. Energy will not be wasted on friction or regrets.
What you have is the present moment. Use it ? enjoy it.
© 2004 Esther Smith
Esther Smith is editor of Partners-For-Profit Newsletter; always a good read and publisher of http://thepermanentventure.com and http://MoreOnlineCash.com ? Subscribers to PFP receive a weekly diet of marketing and advertising reports, fr*ee bonuses, ad space and 5-star resources to start up, run and explode your business venture. clendon@thepermanentventure.com?subject=subscribe
Don't Let Life Happen To You ... Read More
The Life Path is determined by the sum that is... Read More
Happiness is worth helping along.The benefits of being a happy... Read More
Laughter, humor, a lighthearted sense of being - all of... Read More
Many people live in clutter, emotionally eat themselves into overweight,... Read More
Does the expression "single and happy" sound like an oxymoron... Read More
If there was ever a principle that was responsible for... Read More
You can be as happy as you want whenever you... Read More
Our sense of smell elicits strong emotional reactions and triggers... Read More
Our sense of smell elicits strong emotional reactions and trigger... Read More
In the United States, the pursuit of happiness is a... Read More
"The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise... Read More
Many of us are probably so used to crisis in... Read More
Do you know what all happy and healthy marriages have... Read More
According to U.S. research, you can add seven and a... Read More
We are all familiar with or have heard of the... Read More
"You cannot capture happiness no matter how hard you may... Read More
Imagine discovering a way to get rid of your fears... Read More
Happiness. The pursuit of so many. In fact, we are... Read More
To maintain an unchangeable sweetness of disposition, to think only... Read More
Let's just say? first thing when you popped out of... Read More
If you're an employer or a manager then work place... Read More
Humans are liable to experience a variety of afflictions, but... Read More
One of my favorite songs is Bobby McFerrin's refrain, "Don't... Read More
Since the mission of this newsletter is to help you... Read More
To begin feeling that first spark of self-confidence within you,... Read More
A woman we'll call "Jane" thought she was a great... Read More
I have decided to declare 2004 as the YEAR OF... Read More
We can all be confident when we are sure of... Read More
Who is the happiest person in America? USA Today featured... Read More
In what areas of your life would you like to... Read More
1. Mend a quarrel Seek out a forgotten friend and... Read More
Everyone wants to be happy. When you decide to be... Read More
If someone said you could feel inner peace and joy... Read More
A friend once said to me, "There is no meaning... Read More
I am often asked how I can live the way... Read More
A pervasive sense of low self-esteem, a feeling of unworthiness,... Read More
"There are hundreds of languages in the world, but a... Read More
Since wisdom is the art of coping with suffering, it... Read More
Being in tune with your mind, body, and soul and... Read More
Although many for us strive for happiness in our daily... Read More
Six months ago you had trouble finding your keys and... Read More
The decisions we make everyday have a big impact on... Read More
Everyone I've ever met considers happiness to be desirable. There... Read More
This question and answer article was done by Gizelle River,... Read More
Many people exercise, play sports, or know someone who does.... Read More
You have a purpose in life. You have a unique... Read More
It was a bright Saturday morning in the late fall.... Read More
According to U.S. research, you can add seven and a... Read More
Want to make a difference? What can one person do?... Read More
Finding Happiness Finding Happiness |